We’re often invited to do nothing but rest around the time of the Winter Solstice but rest is an elusive experience for many of us who live in chronic states of stress and for whom the feeling of safety is still an aspiration. Instead, I invite us to redefine the concept of rest to suit our own needs. Perhaps it feels more appropriate to simply recover and restore our resources. Read for more about why observing the festival of Yule matters and how we might consider restoring ourselves at this time.

Toxic shame does not like to be exposed which is why it can be so hard to recognize, even among professionals. However, there are some telltale indicators that toxic shame is present and that it’s not an emotion but rather has become internalized. In this article you’ll find a list of what I believe to be the ten strongest indicators that Shamework is required, especially if we’ve been in therapy or have been doing healing work for a long time without experiencing the results we’re hoping for.

Samhain is one of the cross-quarter festivals on the Wheel of Year, the ancient way of observing seasonal cycles. It’s widely believed that on this day the veil between the earthly and spirit realms is at its thinnest which is why it’s the perfect time to consider how engaging with our spirituality can support our sense of wellness; in particular, the power of ritual. Regardless of how we define ‘spiritual practice,’ at this time we look to our ancestors, our beloved dead, and nourishing rituals for assistance as we move deeper into our healing journeys.

Content-free therapy is conducted in such a way which does not require clients to disclose the details of their story in order to process it or to desensitize emotional or sensory triggers associated with a particular experience. Not everyone is able to share their whole story for a myriad of reasons including shame, confidentiality, and fear among others. This shouldn’t be an obstacle as long as we work with modalities that can facilitate change without narrative.

At the Autumn Equinox we transition from a Life cycle to a collective Death cycle which is all about releasing. At this gorgeous festival, we're invited to consider what can no longer go with us on our journey. Just as the day and night are equal, we give thanks for our bounties and detach from them in equal measure. Letting go of what no longer serves us is the greatest act of self-love we can take.

While all EFT is tapping, not all tapping is EFT. Considering how many wellness influencers are trying to get us to practice ‘tapping’ for our wellbeing and considering how unsung EFT still is, it’s easy to assume that EFT and tapping are the same thing but there are subtle differences. Read on for what they are and why it matters.

Despite needing solitude, humans are still tribally-inclined machines. We need a community on which we can rely for support. Humans are social creatures, but we’re also spiritual creatures with emotional needs. Our spirits need true connection. We need sisterhood. Brotherhood. Community. We need a Soul Tribe to feel truly fulfilled.

Shame is possibly the most misunderstood of all human emotions. It’s also the most taboo, the most debilitating, and the most avoided. All of which makes it the most powerful emotion we can experience. The best way to normalize shame is to understand it better by clearing up some of the most common misconceptions about it.

The delicious festival of Lughnasadh signals the start of harvest season and observing it invites us to do something extremely important - to harvest all the abundant fruits of our labor and truly relish them! This festival of abundance reminds us to come back to the present and savor the sweetness of life.

Perfectionism is the compulsion to achieve flawlessness. Some might say it’s the dependency on achievement to feel good. When doing something that is perceived as perfect is conflated with the state of being good or worthy, perfectionism ensues. Why do some of us cross these wires of being and doing? Because when we feel flawed on the inside, the only way to compensate is to perfect ourselves on the outside in order to avoid feeling shame. However, anyone who suffers from perfectionism knows that it results in anything but feeling good. Perfectionism is exhausting, linked to anxiety, depression, and procrastination, and it challenges even the strongest of relationships.